Between Us is a private checklist for two people who want to talk about intimacy, boundaries, and desire — without the awkward cold start. Each of you answers on your own iPhone. You compare only when you're both ready.
No accounts to make, no cold "so… what are you into?" conversation to start. Just answer honestly, one card at a time.
Each of you fills out the same checklist on your own phone, one card at a time. Love it, like it, neutral, curious, or a hard no — plus a private note if you want one.
It saves as you go, on your phone only. Pause whenever, pick up right where you left off. Nobody sees your answers — not even your partner — until you both choose to.
When you've both finished, bring your phones together. They connect directly — no internet — and show where you match, where you differ, and what's worth a conversation.
This isn't a privacy promise you have to trust — it's how the app is made. There's no server to collect anything with.
No sign-up, no email, no analytics, no third-party trackers. The App Privacy label reads "Data Not Collected" — because there's nothing collecting it.
Your answers are encrypted at rest and never leave your device until you both explicitly choose to compare.
Comparing happens over a direct, encrypted local connection between your two phones. No internet, no middleman, no record anywhere.
Optional Face ID or passcode lock keeps the app closed to anyone but you — even in the app switcher.
When you're both done, Between Us shows each answer side by side and flags what you agree on — and what's simply worth talking through. (A sample, with made-up answers.)
The whole checklist, notes, the privacy lock, and a sample compare cost nothing. Seeing your real results together takes a single purchase.
Between Us is on its way to iPhone. Want a nudge when it launches?
Yes. There's no server and no account. Your answers stay encrypted on your own phone and only travel — directly to your partner's phone, over a local connection — when you both explicitly tap Compare.
Yes. Each person fills out the checklist on their own iPhone, and comparing brings the two phones together. That separation is what keeps each of you honest and private.
No — one purchase covers the couple. Whichever of you unlocks Compare, it opens for both of you.
Two consenting adults who want a calmer, clearer way to talk about intimacy and boundaries. It's rated 18+.